Author: Goku, a 4 The father of a year old girl is a male engineer, programmer, and entrepreneur. Huazhang is written in the front: Electronic games have always been a sensitive topic. More than twenty years ago, electronic games were known as "ferocious beasts"; Nowadays, smartphones have become popular, and children are passionate about mobile games, which has caused many parents a headache. But in fact, games are something that every one of us naturally likes, and with the help of new media, electronic games are even seen as the "ninth art" after movies. Today, this is the first article submitted by the excellent father Goku to the slave society 3 I believe this article can take you to view electronic games from another perspective. I am a 4 The father of a year old girl is also a 25 A hardcore player in the year of the electronic game. When I bring 4 When my wife caught me playing Super Mary at home, my usually gentle wife was so angry that she shouted at me,XXXDon't use your tricks to harm the child!!  ▲ The latest 'Super Mario Brothers' is now available 4 I passed the level at the same time I spent the whole night chatting with my wife about my "gaming" life and "gaming" attitude, and managed to persuade her. Two weeks later, I was pleasantly surprised to find that the "outcome" was a bit beyond expectations. By accident, my wife seemed to have also fallen into the trap (laughing). I will discuss this matter later. Let me tell you my story first. 1、 My Game Childhood My first exposure to electronic games was in my third grade of elementary school. At that time, with the transfer of my parents' work, I transferred from the countryside to a primary school in the county town. When rural people enter the city, naturally everything is fresh, but what shocked me the most was the magical game box at my classmate's house. That day, my classmate invited me to his house to play. When he took out his game console and connected it to the TV, he skillfully operated the controller, while stepping on mushrooms, eating coins, and rescuing the princess; In a moment, I transformed into a special forces soldier, going up and down, sniping aliens... my chin almost fell off! Isn't this what I fantasize about becoming a great hero and doing every day? Afterwards, whenever I had the opportunity, I would go to my classmates' homes and clamor for a game console every day at home. Never forget, there will always be an echo. On the sixth day of fifth grade, my father brought me a "Little Overlord Learning Machine". That's right, it's the one endorsed by Jackie Chan, and the sound of "Little Overlord has endless fun" when it turned on is a memory of our generation.  ▲ The Little Overlord learning machine endorsed by Jackie Chan was popular at that time It's said to be a learning machine, but in fact, besides occasionally typing to cover up parents' ears and eyes, the main thing is playing games! This "routine" has still been tried and tested repeatedly, and manufacturers and children have reached an astonishing understanding: buying a computer, buying a phone, buying a learning tablet, and talking about "assisting learning, researching materials, taking online classes, and handing in homework". In fact, only "My World", "King of Glory", and "Peace Elite" are on their minds. Looking back on the feeling of playing games at that time, there were really only four words: it was so fun! The tinkling sound of gold coins never tires of hearing; After experiencing hardships and dangers, the last drop of blood killed the Great Demon King's bravery, and he could excitedly show off for several days; In the turbulent times, Liu Bei was chosen by the Three Kingdoms to unify the Central Plains, while Lv Fengxian, the phoenix chick of Wolong, remained unchanged and remade history; 'Anti Terrorism Elite' teamed up with good friends and played games, and the brotherhood remains unforgettable to this day; There is also role-playing to experience joy, gratitude, and parting in life and death; Playing 'Civilization', experiencing the rise and fall of generations and the rise of great powers Electronic games not only bring me pure gaming joy; Also take me through time and space, personally rewriting history and the future; It also made me experience a period of laughter and laughter with good friends, competition and 'living and dying together'.  ▲ The picture comes from the internet, which is a true portrayal of our generation playing electronic games! 2、 Games, College Entrance Examination, and Life Directions I never thought that electronic games would have a significant impact on my future life choices. When I was in high school, personal computers appeared in China. I have learned from various sources that this more magical box can not only be used for playing games, but also for making games. This filled me with curiosity and longing for it. At that time, there were hardly any decent game manufacturers or software vendors in China. Once by chance, I saw the story of Bill Gates creating a software empire in Computer News, and I immediately admired this digital hero. As a young person, I had the idea of making games and writing software myself in the future. Even in my later application for studying abroad, I had the ambition to write a dream of "revitalizing China's software industry". (Of course, this dream has been realized by countless peers today, haha.) Looking back at my childhood, although I still struggle to overcome the estrangement between father and son caused by my father's harshness towards me, on the other hand, I am extremely fortunate. Although my father is strict, he is very busy, giving me many opportunities to play games and computers; At the same time, my father and mother also demonstrated their rare support and tolerance towards me in the field of computers. They were the first to send me to participate in the school's summer computer class; Bought me a computer as soon as possible; I am also encouraged to participate in the high school information science Olympiad training (learning programming and algorithms).  ▲ The picture comes from the internet, my first device 586 The Pentium computer looks like this Studying programming in high school was one of the worst students in my class, and the only highlight moment that could make teachers and other classmates look at me differently and also allow me to find a sense of existence. My love for games has transformed into an obsession with programming and writing games. In the final semester of high school, my parents and teachers jointly confiscated my game console and computer, but I still immersed myself in my own world. Before the college entrance examination 2 Last month, in class, I used a book as a cover and simulated writing game code with a pen and paper; At night when I got home, I secretly sneaked into the internet cafe and used the internet cafe computer to write a game of Snake for my Wenqu Star  ▲ Wenquxing is also a magical existence, and this electronic dictionary actually contains Basic Language, which can be used for programming/game! Of course, the consequences of doing so are also very obvious, as my college entrance examination was dozens of points behind my second grade. On the day I received the score, I was furious and said to my father, 'As long as I can learn computer science, I am willing to go to any school!'! My father remained silent for a long time before slowly responding, "We all support you in learning computer science. But to truly learn it well and develop, you may need to go to a larger city. Are you considering repeating it. I agree. After going through re reading, I finally came to Beijing to study as expected. Afterwards, I went smoothly on the path of computer science: I was at the top of the computer science program in university, and had a great time; Successfully studied in the United States and obtained a Master's degree in Computer Science; After returning to China, he entered a technology factory; Later on, I started internet entrepreneurship, and now I am combining online and offline innovation education I am fortunate to be able to consider my interests as a profession. When it comes to my high school experience now, many people will give me a hint of envy because "when I filled out my high school application, I could clearly know what I wanted in the future. Part of this credit comes from meeting video games, but more importantly, I want to attribute it to my parents' "seeing" me. When I had my own ideas and interests, they didn't interfere too much, but chose to support me. 3、 Wife's soul torture So, is that the reason why you take your children to play electronic games? "After listening to the story, my wife breathed a sigh of relief and asked me. Yes! Games have given me a beautiful childhood and also given me a beautiful direction in life What does this have to do with the child? Do you still want her to learn a computer "Er... that's not true, but playing games is fun, and it also provides many opportunities for children to experience the world. You see, playing Animal Crossing, she can cut trees, plant flowers, pick fruit, fish, catch insects, set up her own tent, make tools, plan islands... playing Selda, I can also solve the mystery of the temple with her!"  ▲ 2020 In the popular Animal Crossing at the beginning of the year, players can simulate living together with animal friends on an island, and do their own work to provide adequate food and clothing. What else Playing games is great for children's fine motor development. She uses a controller and requires coordination between her left and right hands, which is very hands-on Oh, what else I can also take her to play some physical games such as dancing and boxing! It's both fun and exercise Oh? What else And... and... actually, I just think that as a father, I love playing games so much. After having a child, I always have to hold back and cannot play, or can only play secretly. It's too uncomfortable! I think it's a good thing, so I want to share it with the child, have fun, and play together, isn't it Haha, finally there's a bit of truth. Is that child addicted to playing I have studied the issue of addiction. To be honest, when it comes to fun and interesting things, let alone children, we adults often cannot stop. For example, if you read novels, I watch American dramas. If there are no restrictions, addiction is really normal Don't you think our child watches cartoons every day? If she lets go and lets her watch them, she won't be able to stop either. But we made rules every day before 30 Minute, also firmly executed. Previously, the baby would still cry, but now they can all consciously turn off the TV So I think setting good rules and gradually teaching children to play and allocate time reasonably is more important and effective than not letting them play. Moreover, compared to watching cartoons, playing games places more emphasis on interaction, practicing both hands and brains, and often requires communication and discussion when playing together, which may help improve expression and thinking Well, there's a bit of truth to it. But is it easy to damage your eyes when playing games As for eyesight, I have also checked it! Whether it's watching animations, playing games, reading or writing, using your eyes at close range is the culprit of poor eyesight. Stay away from it, keep your posture straight, and avoid it 15 If you can overlook the distance in minutes and be more outdoors, there won't be any problem Um~It seems that you have done quite well in your homework. Then let you go Postscript When the baby started playing games with me, I was pleasantly surprised to discover too much fun in parenting. Watching the baby from the beginning "afraid to play", only willing to watch me play; When she started picking up the handle and clumsily pressing the buttons, she insisted on using one thumb to handle both hands; She screamed with excitement as she picked her first fruit and hit a small monster for the first time; When going through the maze again, she came up with a plan and offered an important idea Little by little, children have gained joy and growth through games and interactions with me. I also secretly felt happy and found a good way to not only take care of my children, but also make myself happy! By the way, do you remember my wife also got into the pit? She fell in love with a sense of individuality game: 'Dancing Power All Open'. Nowadays, the whole family often dances together on the screen, and it doesn't matter how much points they have or whether their actions are standardized~What's important is the sweat like rain, what's important is the joyful swing brought by this rhythm, and what's important is the happiness of our family together!  ▲ The gameplay of 'Dancing Power Open' is very simple, just follow the characters in the game and dance! Finally, if you are also interested in playing electronic games with your children, I would like to give a few more tips: 1What to play and how to play are very important. For young children, you can find some beginners in physical gaming. There are not many options for gaming consoles in this area, mainly Nintendo's Switch recreational machines; Playing other types of games, using tablets and desktops is also great, pay attention to keeping up with the screen 50cm Above. You can choose a game with a theme that your child likes. If the operation is more complex, you can help the child reduce the difficulty, such as having the child command and you operate it. When playing, remember to communicate with your child more and listen to their thoughts. This is a great opportunity to help develop their thinking, expression, cognition, and enhance parent-child relationships! 2How long is it suitable to play every day? According to the recommendations of the American Academy of Pediatrics,1 Before the age of one and a half, it is not recommended for children to use any electronic screen (mobile phone) except for video calls/computer/Television, etc.);1 Half a year old to 5 Age, do not exceed every day 1 Hours; As we grow older, without clear restrictions, families can negotiate rules with their children based on the actual situation. My personal suggestion is not to exceed this limit 2 Hours. 3Is playing games addictive? Yes, most games are designed to target people's internal reward mechanisms, making them irresistible to play. However, you can still choose some less addictive games (such as single player games that are often less addictive than online games, and games with shorter game times per round are also easier to let go of). In fact, in this era when businesses have been fully aware of human weaknesses, your mobile phone, your WeChat, your Tiktok, your purchases on Taobao JD, which one is not addictive? I think the strategy for dealing with addiction should not be prohibition or avoidance, but rather parents should patiently understand their children's interests, see their true needs, and then flexibly respond. |
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